{"id":529,"date":"2020-07-02T16:36:11","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T16:36:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/milestonesmagazine.com\/?page_id=529"},"modified":"2020-07-31T20:39:19","modified_gmt":"2020-07-31T20:39:19","slug":"planning-101-out-of-towners-guide-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/milestonesmagazine.com\/?page_id=529","title":{"rendered":"Party Planning 101: Out Of Towners&#8217; Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#7cda24&#8243; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_image=&#8221;http:\/\/milestonesmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/56312c722152917f6e3b958f0261d479.jpg&#8221; background_position=&#8221;center_right&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;luminosity&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; min_height=&#8221;260px&#8221; height=&#8221;175px&#8221; max_height=&#8221;189px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;44px||37px|||&#8221; global_module=&#8221;569&#8243; 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Some charge fees to reserve. This can be especially helpful if you have a number of guests arriving during a period when hotels are busy.<\/li>\n<li>Consider reserving rooms at two or more hotels for convenience and different price levels.<\/li>\n<li>A small &#8220;welcome package&#8221; from the host family is a nice touch to make out-of-town guests feel at home. Hotels can arrange these for a fee, or you can package them inexpensively and the hotel will usually distribute them for free. Contents can include snacks, kosher foods, home baked goods, toys and cards for children, soda, fruits, momentos, etc. Flowers for the room are also a nice touch.<\/li>\n<li>A shuttle service is a convenient way to transport guests unfamiliar with local roads to the synagogue or simcha site, especially for an evening event. Check with hotels for airport shuttles. You could arrange ride\u00adsharing for guests renting cars and staying at the same hotel and\/or arriving at the same time. 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Try photocopying a local map to locate the synagogue with location circled. <a href=\"\\&quot;http:\/\/www.mapquest.com\\&quot;\">Mapquest.com<\/a> and <a href=\"\\&quot;http:\/\/www.travelocity.com\\&quot;\">Travelocity.com<\/a> are helpful web sites.<\/li>\n<\/ul>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; position_origin_r_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; position_origin_r_phone=&#8221;&#8221; position_origin_r_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-21px|auto||auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||0px|||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#0c71c3&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;-36px|||||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;10px|10px|5px|10px|false|false&#8221;]<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Family Activities<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;||-12px|||&#8221;]<p>Additional activities add another dimension to the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah or wedding experience and allow opportunities to enjoy relatives and friends that you may not see frequently.<br \/> Consider the following:<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; min_height=&#8221;204px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;2px||1px|||&#8221;]<ul>\n<li>If your child is becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah on Saturday Morning, invite guests to the synagogue on Friday night to enjoy the service and Oneg Shabbat.\u00a0This also applies to the Ufruf before the wedding.<\/li>\n<li>Family portraits can be arranged at home or synagogue.<\/li>\n<li>A <strong><em>morning after<\/em><\/strong> brunch is a delightful way to wrap up the simcha and allow families and friends to be together one more time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; position_origin_r_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; position_origin_r_phone=&#8221;&#8221; position_origin_r_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#0c71c3&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;10px|10px|5px|10px|false|false&#8221;]<h3><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Miscellaneous<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.8&#8243;]<ul>\n<li>You may wish to schedule appointments for manicures, hair, and make-up appointments for your guests who will not be familiar with the area.<\/li>\n<li>Consider a web site for the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah that includes weekend and hotel information, online RSVP, printable driving instructions, explanations for non-Jewish guests, and much more. 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